But the doctor-patient relationship was never meant to be other than confidential and privileged and solely for the benefit of the patient. You get the gist; the experience is intrusive.

Doctors are supposed to be nosy. Have you used Botox or had plastic surgery. It's not just that they examine your naked body inside and out and record all its imperfections.

Patients expect it, or they would not be forthcoming. How much do you smoke or drink. This pledge of confidentiality, however, is now challenged by a world where computers rule and health information.

Have you been depressed or been treated for mental illness. Ever had a sexually transmitted disease. And how about your marriage € or marriages. Physicians are trained to peer into your life, past and present, and ask all sorts of sensitive, if not uncomfortable, questions. And doctors take the Hippocratic oath, pledging to hold sacred their patients' secrets.

Have you ever used marijuana or cocaine.