But the doctor-patient relationship was never meant to be other than confidential and privileged and solely for the benefit of the patient. This pledge of confidentiality, however, is now challenged by a world where computers rule and health information falls into many hands. And how about your marriage € or marriages. One might well ask whether medical privacy is just too outmoded a concept for today's information-hungry world. How much do you smoke or drink.

Have you ever used marijuana or cocaine. Have you used Botox or had plastic surgery. And doctors take the Hippocratic oath, pledging to hold sacred their patients' secrets. Doctors are supposed to be nosy. It's not just that they examine your naked body inside and out and record all its imperfections.

Patients expect it, or they would not be forthcoming. You get the gist; the experience is intrusive. Ever had a sexually transmitted disease. Electronic medical records have become a national goal, a way to replace. Have you been depressed or been treated for mental illness.

Physicians are trained to peer into your life, past and present, and ask all sorts of sensitive, if not uncomfortable, questions.