Ever had a sexually transmitted disease. Have you been depressed or been treated for mental illness. Have you used Botox or had plastic surgery. And doctors take the Hippocratic oath, pledging to hold sacred their patients' secrets. How much do you smoke or drink. You get the gist; the experience is intrusive.

Have you ever used marijuana or cocaine. It's not just that they examine your naked body inside and out and record all its imperfections. Physicians are trained to peer into your life, past and present, and ask all sorts of sensitive, if not uncomfortable, questions. Patients expect it, or they would not be forthcoming.

Doctors are supposed to be nosy.

This pledge of confidentiality, however, is now challenged by a world where computers rule and health information falls into many hands. One might well ask whether medical privacy is just too outmoded a concept for today's information-hungry world. And how about your marriage € or marriages.

But the doctor-patient relationship was never meant to be other than confidential and privileged and solely for the benefit of the patient.